{"id":887,"date":"2017-02-26T11:06:09","date_gmt":"2017-02-26T11:06:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/?p=887"},"modified":"2017-11-27T15:47:08","modified_gmt":"2017-11-27T15:47:08","slug":"un-sfat-pentru-relatia-de-cuplu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/?p=887","title":{"rendered":"Un sfat pentru rela\u021bia de cuplu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_0357.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-889 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_0357-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"img_0357\" width=\"176\" height=\"235\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_0357-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_0357-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_0357-750x1000.jpg 750w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 176px) 100vw, 176px\" \/><\/a>Cel mai important lucru pe care \u00eel po\u021bi face pentru fiin\u021ba pe care o iube\u0219ti este s\u0103 o aju\u021bi s\u0103 devin\u0103 liber\u0103!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong>Iar acest lucru este valabil \u00een toate rela\u021biile: de <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sentimente.ro\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">cuplu<\/a>, p\u0103rinte-copil sau angajat-angajator!<\/p>\n<p>Pare un non-sens din punctul de vedere al partenerului, p\u0103rintelui sau angajatorului.<\/p>\n<p>Dar s\u0103 le lu\u0103m pe r\u00e2nd:<\/p>\n<p><em>Partea I \u2013 \u00ceN <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sentimente.ro\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">CUPLU<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Orice rela\u021bie presupune respect, pre\u021buire \u0219i \u00eencredere reciproc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Dar,<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>dac\u0103 suntem \u00een rela\u021bie pentru a-l \u201esalva\u201d pe cel\u0103lalt,<\/li>\n<li>dac\u0103 \u00eei toler\u0103m sau \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 justific\u0103m (\u00een fa\u021ba altora sau chiar fa\u021b\u0103 de noi \u00een\u0219ine) de multe ori comportamente (pe care la altcineva le-am g\u0103si de neacceptat),<\/li>\n<li>dac\u0103 ne temem s\u0103 comunic\u0103m (s\u0103 \u00eei transmitem ce ne dorim, ce nevoi \u0219i ce visuri avem),<\/li>\n<li>dac\u0103 avem sentimentul c\u0103 \u00eentrerup\u00e2nd rela\u021bia, partenerul nu va mai g\u0103si pe nimeni \u0219i va tr\u0103i toat\u0103 via\u021ba singur \u0219i lipsit de afec\u021biune,<\/li>\n<li>dac\u0103 partenerul este \u00een cea mai mare parte a timpului vulnerabil, ne\u00een\u021beles sau lipsit de iubire, r\u0103nit sau \u00een pericol, respins de ceilal\u021bi sau neajutorat \u0219i sim\u021bim adesea nevoia s\u0103 fim \u201ep\u0103rinte\u201d pentru el, s\u0103 \u00eel \u201erepar\u0103m\u201d sau s\u0103 \u00eel vindec\u0103m,<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>ne afl\u0103m \u00eentr-un rol de salvator, care aparent justific\u0103 \u201emisiunea\u201d noastr\u0103 \u00een via\u021b\u0103, dar incon\u0219tient ne creeaz\u0103 iluzia c\u0103 de\u021binem puterea, c\u0103 avem \u201econtrolul\u201d \u00een rela\u021bie. \u00cen acest fel, ne auto-program\u0103m s\u0103 \u201evedem\u201d doar strig\u0103tul lui de ajutor \u0219i ni-l \u00een\u0103bu\u0219im pe al nostru. \u00cel \u201etrat\u0103m\u201d pe el \u0219i sper\u0103m c\u0103 astfel automat ne vom salva pe noi. Sau \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 ne ajut\u0103m partenerul ca o compensare pentru faptul c\u0103 \u00een copil\u0103rie nu ne-am putut salva mama, tat\u0103l, fratele sau chiar pe noi \u00een\u0219ine din fa\u021ba unei atitudini ostile, neglijente sau violente sau chiar abuzatoare.<\/p>\n<p>Oricare ar fi situa\u021bia, \u0219i noi \u0219i cel\u0103lalt suntem prizonierii unui parteneriat dependent, lipsit de vitalitate, \u00een care ne afund\u0103m pe nesim\u021bite, care \u201e\u00eengroap\u0103\u201d orice motiva\u021bie de a fi fericit \u0219i orice nevoie de auto-actualizare.<\/p>\n<p>Dar, dac\u0103 ai respect pentru ceea ce este partenerul t\u0103u, ai admira\u021bie pentru ceea ce face \u0219i ai \u00eencredere c\u0103 alegerile lui sunt bune, te po\u021bi dezvolta tu \u00eensu\u021bi\/\u00eens\u0103\u0219i ca fiin\u021b\u0103, po\u021bi experimenta via\u021ba \u0219i po\u021bi spera \u00eentr-o autodep\u0103\u0219ire continu\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>D\u0103-i libertatea de A FI \u0219i vei FI \u0219i tu o persoan\u0103 preg\u0103tit\u0103 s\u0103 fie fericit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 \u00eentr-un <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sentimente.ro\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">cuplu<\/a> \u00eentotdeauna unu \u0219i cu unu va avea ca rezultat cifra trei (voi doi \u0219i rela\u021bia)!<\/p>\n<p>Cu drag,<\/p>\n<p>Simona<\/p>\n<p><em>Inspirat\u0103 de cartea lui Adrian Nu\u021b\u0103 \u2013 Psihologia cuplului<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cel mai important lucru pe care \u00eel po\u021bi face pentru fiin\u021ba pe care o iube\u0219ti este s\u0103 o aju\u021bi s\u0103 devin\u0103 liber\u0103! \u00a0Iar acest lucru este valabil \u00een toate rela\u021biile: de cuplu, p\u0103rinte-copil sau angajat-angajator! Pare un non-sens din punctul de vedere al partenerului, p\u0103rintelui sau angajatorului. Dar s\u0103 le lu\u0103m pe r\u00e2nd: Partea I&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[106,5,7,8,14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-887","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-coaching","category-consiliere-2","category-cuplu","category-dependente","category-familie-copil"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"Simona Luiza Seteanu","author_link":"https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/author\/simona-seteanu"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Cel mai important lucru pe care \u00eel po\u021bi face pentru fiin\u021ba pe care o iube\u0219ti este s\u0103 o aju\u021bi s\u0103 devin\u0103 liber\u0103! \u00a0Iar acest lucru este valabil \u00een toate rela\u021biile: de cuplu, p\u0103rinte-copil sau angajat-angajator! Pare un non-sens din punctul de vedere al partenerului, p\u0103rintelui sau angajatorului. Dar s\u0103 le lu\u0103m pe r\u00e2nd: Partea I...","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/887","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=887"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/887\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1053,"href":"https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/887\/revisions\/1053"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=887"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=887"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vreausfat.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=887"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}